Eugenious

Dear Elena,

As the rain pelts the windows and the clouds blow in across Spencer Butte, I look back over photos of you since you turned one – a quarter of year ago – photos that include playing in a fountain and lots of short sleeves. I think about how much slides by, how many new things you do that go undocumented. I want to apologize, to say I’m sorry that I know exactly when Sylvan pointed to a bird and said “bhut” (or I’d know if I could find that notebook…), but I have to stop regretting something I can’t change. You’re a second child, baby girl, and while that means I might not write down when your top right bicuspid comes in, your cheerful presence and cuddly ways have earned you a position of high regard in this family. In other words, we just want to squish you, you’re so cute.

And I haven’t totally been sitting down on the job:

By mid-September, when you were 13 months old, your fun tricks included shaking the water off, which looked like an out-of-control head shake, and saying “fff-fff-fff” for dog (woof?). You enjoyed pursing your lips into a duckbill and breathing loudly through your nose. When the windows were all rolled down and the sunroof was open in the car, and the wind whipped across your face, you squealed with delight. (This was something Sylvan despised when he was almost two. It was a HOT summer of riding around with the windows up.)

When you reached 14 months, you started nodding to say yes. You still use the “milk” sign when you want something, although you started to use the “more” sign at around 14 months, too. Sometimes these two are interchangeable for you when it’s food you want. You also use your version of the American sign language sign for “bird” whenever you see or we talk about a songbird. For your sign, you curl and straighten your index finger. We think you also started verbally saying “up” about a month ago, although you use your arms to indicate that you’d like to be picked up more often than you use your mouth. You might also say “out.” And you definitely say “mamamamama” when you see me and would like to be with me.

For a while a couple of months ago, you calmed yourself to sleep with a singing “mmmmmmm.” I haven’t heard you do that in a while.

Sometime in your thirteenth or fourteenth month, you started to understand nearly everything we said that had to do with objects. I could easily give you a two-part instruction, like “Please go into the laundry room and get your shoes” and expect that you’d come back and sit in front of me, shoes in hand, ready to put on your shoes and go outside. And, while you do have a sincere appreciation of the shoe (we regularly find shoes scattered through the house, the remains of your day), you sit right down when you walk inside, ready to have us help you remove your shoes. Good little egg. You also eagerly sit when food or drink is forthcoming.

You are a better listener than the rest of us. Daddy, Sylvan, and I interrupt, get frustrated, and don’t hear each other as we selectively listen. You listen and you act. You may not reliably say many words, but you understand not only a great number of words but also the energy of what’s happening around you.

You have absolutely charmed your teachers at school. All of them would like to take you home with them. When I picked you up on Wednesday, they said you’d rocked a baby doll to sleep when a teacher was rocking one of your peers to sleep. You stood right next to her and twisted your torso back and forth, soothing your doll.

Your fifth tooth also came in on Wednesday. I can’t believe you can eat all those almonds we’ve been feeding you with only five teeth (I’m kidding; walnuts are so much softer.)

At fifteen months, you have become a much better follower of rules. Because I must say “no touch” so often, you have now started to wait to touch something new. You’ll look at the [plant, baby, cat, trash on the street], then look at me, then sidle closer, waiting for my approval.

Within the last month, you’ve started pointing at your hair, ears, mouth, nose, toes, eyes, and belly button (your personal favorite) if we ask you where they are.

While I keep thinking you don’t have many words, you do show your appreciation for all vehicles with engines by telling us “duh,” a variation of “truck” I think, and any animal other than a songbird elicits a “daw,” for “dog.” (Yes, readers, those sound almost exactly the same.) Just yesterday, you created a sign for “water” that looks a lot like the ASL for “eat,” probably because your hand isn’t ready to hold only your first three fingers up yet.

That said, you seem pretty dexterous. You are a happy tinkerer, wandering around, putting objects in cups, piling them on top of each other, pushing buttons, seeing how things work. You also love to draw – also just to carry pencils around, to my paranoid dismay.

Happy 15 months, munchkin.

Love,
Mommy

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